I hadn’t thought about Carshalton for ages. The town in which I grew up. But I went looking for a picture to post with the words on my previous blog post and stumbled into a time warp. So many memories crowding in, one after another.
Carshalton – a small suburban town in what was once Surrey (now Greater London). Nothing special.
My family had drifted there from southern London – I’m not sure how or why. A curious place to be. But as good as any other, I suppose, and far better than many. When I look at the pictures gleaned from an idle Google search I am amazed at how green it was/is, and how much water there was/is.
I’d forgotten it was a place built around springs. Yet, now I ponder it, I remember that as a child, I spent swathes of time poking around Carshalton Park, around The Grove, the Ponds (oh how I wanted to row out and camp on the tiny island), Beddington Park (The Grange) and the Wandle river as it wandled its down from Carshalton Park to the High Street. My mother said she remembered when the water even ran alongside the High Street. There’s even a well – Anne Boleyn’s Well.
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Carshalton Park is interesting. All kinds of odd earthworks and concavities. As children we called them, variously, The Frying Pan, The Saucepan (aka the Little Dip) and the Big Dip. Water seeped out of springs into the Big Dip and I spent hours doing…what? I can’t remember really – just that the emerging water was an endless source of imagination and wonder. I could spend hours there. Sometimes alone, sometimes with friends.
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| So much water here when I was small. :( |
The river had once been presided over by a Victorian pseudo-grotto – with a largeish cave and two smaller ‘sentry boxes’ either side. Once there had been statues there, or so I’m told but they had long been removed and, when we were small, the place had a sinister air – we thought it the home of vampires and never turned our backs on its black interior.
My grandmother is buried in the churchyard of All Saints. Originally outside the hallowed ground (she had converted to Plymouth Brethren so was considered outside the remit of the Church of England).
Next to the church sits The Greyhound, one of my father’s favourite pubs. When I was small, very small, I’d go with him and sit in the little tiny back bar. When I was a teenager I came back, with friends, and graduated to the main bar, overlooking the ponds.
And this (below) was the somewhat hideous Methodist church to which I shamelessly switched allegiance at an early age, on the promise of a free book of Bible stories and a chocolate bar. My brownie and girl guide hall was around the side and, the moment I type that, I can smell the musty tarpaulins and tents underneath the stage.
I used to walk to school (we had no car and, anyhow, everyone walked everywhere then). First to Stanley Park Infants and then a short hop over the playground to the Junior school. Next to Stanley Park (obviously) – a somewhat inferior affair with only the small saving graces of a lacklustre playground and a cut where the railway passed. Distinctly lacking in water.
Yes, we had green buses, as well as the red London ones. This one would take me all the way to my senior school in Cheam, if I let it.
And this was the pub I hated, with drunks falling out of it, men leering…I used to cross the road and walk swiftly by. Now, apparently, it is quite different – a pukka beer pub, beloved of men like Adrian.
Anyhow, enough of all that. The past. Funny old place, huh?
But it makes me wonder...do they affect us, these early places. Would we be different people if we grew up elsewhere? What do you think? Where did you spend your childhood and did it affect the person you are now?
But it makes me wonder...do they affect us, these early places. Would we be different people if we grew up elsewhere? What do you think? Where did you spend your childhood and did it affect the person you are now?